Love (காமத்துப்பால்) / The Post-marital love
Chapter 126
நிறையழிதல்
Reserve Overcome
Niraiyazhidhal. Malay: Hilang Kawalan Diri. Kurals 1251 to 1260.
When love overcomes restraint.
How to say it
Kaamak Kanichchi Utaikkum NiraiyennumNaanuththaazh Veezhththa Kadhavu
Meaning in plain English
The axe of lust can break the door of chastity which is bolted with the bolt of modesty
Poetic translation
Of womanly reserve love's axe breaks through the door, Barred by the bolt of shame before
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Kaamam Enavondro Kannindren NenjaththaiYaamaththum Aalum Thozhil
Meaning in plain English
Even at midnight is my mind worried by lust, and this one thing, alas! is without mercy
Poetic translation
What men call love is the one thing of merciless power; It gives my soul no rest, e'en in the midnight hour
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Maraippenman Kaamaththai Yaano KurippindrithThummalpol Thondri Vitum
Meaning in plain English
I would conceal my lust, but alas, it yields not to my will but breaks out like a sneeze
Poetic translation
I would my love conceal, but like a sneezeIt shows itself, and gives no warning sign
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Niraiyutaiyen Enpenman Yaanoen KaamamMaraiyirandhu Mandru Patum
Meaning in plain English
I say I would be firm, but alas, my malady breaks out from its concealment and appears in public
Poetic translation
In womanly reserve I deemed myself beyond assail; But love will come abroad, and casts away the veil
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Setraarpin Sellaap Perundhakaimai KaamanoiUtraar Arivadhondru Andru
Meaning in plain English
The dignity that would not go after an absent lover is not known to those who are sticken by love
Poetic translation
The dignity that seeks not him who acts as foe, Is the one thing that loving heart can never know
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Setravar Pinseral Venti AliththaroEtrennai Utra Thuyar
Meaning in plain English
The sorrow I have endured by desiring to go after my absent lover, in what way is it excellent?
Poetic translation
My grief how full of grace, I pray you see!It seeks to follow him that hateth me
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Naanena Ondro Ariyalam KaamaththaalPeniyaar Petpa Seyin
Meaning in plain English
I know nothing like shame when my beloved does from love (just) what is desired (by me)
Poetic translation
No sense of shame my gladdened mind shall prove, When he returns my longing heart to bless with love
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Panmaayak Kalvan Panimozhi AndronamPenmai Utaikkum Patai
Meaning in plain English
Are not the enticing words of my trick-abounding roguish lover the weapon that breaks away my feminine firmness?
Poetic translation
The words of that deceiver, versed in every wily art, Are instruments that break through every guard of woman's heart
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Pulappal Enachchendren Pullinen NenjamKalaththal Uruvadhu Kantu
Meaning in plain English
I said I would feign dislike and so went (away); (but) I embraced him the moment I say my mind began to unite with him!
Poetic translation
'I 'll shun his greeting'; saying thus with pride away I went:I held him in my arms, for straight I felt my heart relent
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Ninandheeyil Ittanna Nenjinaarkku UntoPunarndhooti Nirpem Enal
Meaning in plain English
Is it possible for those whose hearts melt like fat in the fire to say they can feign a strong dislike and remain so?
Poetic translation
'We 'll stand aloof and then embrace': is this for them to say, Whose hearts are as the fat that in the blaze dissolves away
G. U. Pope, 1886